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Ellis Wright Family

Six Generations for Cherokee Family

When little Laurie Elaine Frahm made her entrance into this world there was more than the usual amount of rejoicing and more than the usual number of grandparents to welcome her into the family circle. For when Laurie Elaine, daughter of Mr and Mrs Gerald Frahm of Correctionville was born, little over three weeks ago, she made the sixth generation in her family all living and all in the female line. And no one welcomed her more warmly and lovingly than her great-great-great grandmother, 95 years old, Mrs. Clara Neal Tilden.

For though "Grandma" Tilden has been totally blind for nearly eighteen years and hard of hearing for many more she was still young enough at heart to catch the mumps from her great-great grandchildren when she was a youngster of ninety one. But her lack of hearing and sight does not prevent her being very cognizant of every day events and her memory of the past is unquestionable. Being able to cuddle wee Laurie Elaine and murmur lovingly to her seems to give her a new lease on life until the frailties of her age creep in then she must relinquish her to stronger arms.

Genealogy

The genealogy of the six generation goes like this: Clara Neal Tilden, daughter of a pioneer Rock township family - her family came to Quimby vicinity in 1882 five years before the town of Quimby was platted according to the old Cherokee County history. Clara married C. E. Neal and they farmed in Willow township for many years retiring to Quimby in 1912 where Mr. Neal passed away in 1914. They had two daughters, Mrs. Nellie Flickenger who died in 1930 and Bessie Mitchell, well known Cherokean who is Laurie Elaine's great-great grandmother. Great grandmother is Mrs. Bernice West of South Gate, Calif., daughter of Bessie Mitchell. Grandmother is Mrs. David Jensen of Cherokee who cares for Mrs. Tilden and is the mother of Mrs. Gerald Frahm and last but not least in line, Laurie Elaine, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Frahm. Mrs. Tilden has made her home with her great grand daughter Delores Jensen for the past ten and half years. In addition to the six generation combination she reports that five generations can be made up in twelve different ways with the advent of Laurie Elaine.

Covered Wagon

Of hardy pioneer stock, Clara was born in a log cabin on the Scioto River in Franklin County, Ohio January 28, 1867. She came to Iowa when she was four in a covered wagon. The journey to Benton County where they first settled took six weeks. Clara relates the family of seven had four horses. Two would pull the wagon and the older boys would take turns leading the other two horses. At night, she recalls they would stay in the yards of other folks who had established homes along the way and each morning before the family went their way, her mother wold do the family washing.

She started school in Benton County, Iowa remembers seeing many Indian tribes passing by, Squaws with their papooses strapped to their back and of having these wanderers stop at their home for water. One incident vividly etched in her memory is that of an Indian squaw who came into their home and insisted she must have the dress that her mother was ironing at the time. Finally, to get the Indian woman to go on she gave her the dress.

After eleven years in Benton County her father, Ellis Wright and two of her brothers set out to search for another place, one that would be more prosperous for the family.
In about two weeks they received word from their father to come to Cherokee County, that he had found what he wanted. This time, 1882, the family came to their new prairie home by train to Cherokee. "And then it took a week to let father know he was to come to Cherokee to get us." she relates. Apparently the railroad did not as yet reach into the Quimby vicinity at that time. At any rate, Mrs. Tilden remembers riding to their new home in Rock Township from Cherokee on a load of lumber which was to be used for the new house. Also she recalls staying in the Greer Hotel while waiting for her father to pick them up. Their old Rock Township farm is now owned by Herman Fassler.

Log Cabin School

The first school she attended here was in a log cabin. She remembers the school teach staying with her family and that she was so small that he many times carried her through snow drifts en route to school. Other school memories include pupils that were disciplined by spanking. Of pupils taking turns carrying water to the school from the nearest farm home. There was no water at the school.

She recalls many hardships - prairie fires that swept across the prairie and other problems of this new land. But she recalls many happy times with their close knit family, and enjoys relating all these adventures to great great grandchildren.

Her deceased parents, Mr and Mrs Ellis Wright, two brothers, Wray Wright and Ellis Wright, Jr., and Mrs. Mary Fox now all deceased all reached the age of ninety or over. All were well know in the Quimby community as well as her one living sister, Mrs. Eva Huff, 93 of Cherokee.
In 1922, Clara married Fred Tilden, who was in the real estate business. They lived in Sioux City, Spencer and Correctionville. After Mr. Tilden's death in 1937 she moved to her home in Cherokee.

Her general health had always been very good and four years ago she underwent major surgery and six weeks later caught the mumps from the great-great grandchildren. She recovered completely from both but then in 1961 she was unfortunate enough to break her hip. She now spends most of her time in bed, now unable to get about.

This long time county resident has five grandchildren, ten great grandchildren, twenty six great-great grandchildren and one great-great-great granddaughter. The Willow township where Mr. and Mrs. Neal farmed before his death and before her marriage to Mr. Tilden is now farmed by Dale Wright.

Mrs. Tilden is a member of the Methodist Church and a long time member of the Rebekah Lodge that meets in Washta. She joined this organization in 1918 at Quimby.
What a vast change has taken place during the lifetime of this frail, cheerful, plucky ninety five year old lady is startling.

Source: Article written by Mildred Smith for unknown news publication dated 06 June 1962

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