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Clara Romana Turner was born September 21, 1870, Mills County,
Iowa. She is the daughter of Elizabeth Ellen Gowens born March 17,
1838, died September 29, 1880, and Freelove Turner born November 10, 1839,
died December 28, 1922. Elizabeth Ellen was born in Kentucky,
Freelove born in England. Elizabeth and Freelove went to school in
St. Mary's and occasionally crossed the river by steam ferry at
Bethlehem, across from Plattsmouth, Nebraska. Both St. Mary's and
Bethlehem have vanished from the river side.
Elizabeth and Freelove were married November 20 1859,
Mills County, Iowa. They had eight children, Mary Frances, Henry,
Dora, George, Clara, Alice, Carl and Eva. Clara was born by Pony
Creek, Mills County in a large log house. In 1880, the Missouri
River rose far above its banks flooding from bluff to bluff. At the
time, her mother Elizabeth and her brother George died from typhoid fever.
Clara, then, became responsible for helping out more with the chores.
She was 10 years old. She milked cows, slopped hogs, cared for the
chickens and gathered eggs. Then, there were no special reports that
measured the depth of the Mighty Missouri River. A neighbor would
pass by and say "She's comin". The family would wait until the water
would get to the house, and then they pulled the bow of the boat right
into the kitchen, loaded the cook stove and children on board and rowed to
higher ground.
Clara Romana Turner married Daniel Livingstone Wilson
March 23, 1889, at Hentons, Mills County, Iowa. Daniel was born
January 26, 1863, Mills County, Iowa. Five children were born to
this union, Christopher, Carl, Georgia, John and Frances.
Christopher, born September 25, 1889 at Mary's, Mills
County, Iowa, died September 18, 1982, Houston, Missouri, buried Farragut,
Iowa Cemetery.
Carl, born September 9, 1982, St. Mary's, Mills County,
Iowa, died February 17, 1972, Council Bluffs, Iowa, buried at Cedar Lawn
Cemetery.
Georgia "Sis" born July 5, 1895, St. Mary's, Mills County,
Iowa, died March 13, 1992, Council Bluffs, Iowa, buried West Liberty
Cemetery.
John, born September 22, 1898, St. Mary's, Mills County,
Iowa, died August 26, 1965, Grand Island, Nebraska, buried Grand Island
City Cemetery.
Frances Kathryn born September 2, 1904, St. Mary's, Mills
County, Iowa, died April 1, 2000.
Clara and Daniel lived in the bottomlands of St. Mary's
Township and was still close neighbor to the river. Eureka School
was usually a safe place to wait out a flood. At other times,
neighbors welcomed the family into their homes. In the days of vast
distances between farm homes and the scarcity of rural doctors, Clara
served her neighbors, as needed. She once said she replaced the
severed finger of a neighbor child that had been amputated in an accident.
She proudly said "The finger grew back." She assisted in the
delivery of babies, as late as 1922. One story, she told was of
delivering a baby to a family named "Minor" As someone went to get
the doctor, another came to get Clara. Clara delivered the baby and
had it dressed by the time the doctor arrived.
Clara worked very hard as a young wife and mother.
While Daniel worked for a farmer, Clara was responsible for the household
duties, or whatever the farmers wife desired. One day while Clara
was cooking the noonday meal, a vagrant came to the kitchen door, asking
for a hand-out. She told him there was nothing prepared yet, and
that he should leave. He ignored her and was insistent that she give
him some food. He opened the screen door, and barged into the
kitchen. The farmer's wife was sitting in the living room, unknown to
the vagrant. When he entered the kitchen, demanding food, she got up
out of her rocking chair, lifted her apron, and pulled out a 45. She
told him "he best get on his way". He went through the screen door,
as fast he could go. Clara had know her employer carried this gun
around her waist at all times, had never seen it pulled out or used.!!
Clara and Daniel moved onto a farm owned by brother-in-law
Marlin Young. There Clara raised ducks. There was a slough
nearby, perfect place for ducks. She raised 100, at a time.
One day a buyer came by and offered .25 for each. Clara told him she
wouldn't sell for that price, the local butcher would pay that much, and
she would also be given the feathers. She made the family's pillows
and comforters from these feathers.
Daniel raised horses for farm use, he bred and sold them.
At the time there were men who traveled the states with a stallion used
for breeding, and Daniel was charged a fee for services to breed his
mares. Clara and Daniel had a cow, Clara was the only one who ever
milked the cow. One day, for some reason, either she was sick or had
just given birth to Frances, was unable to do it. Christopher was
sent to milk the cow--no matter what he did he could not get near her.
Clara had him put on one of her dresses, and a bonnet. He went up to
the cow, no problem, he was able to milk her. Smart Cow!!!
Daniel kept a pipe in his mouth at all times, the stem had burned through,
causing an open sore. A cancer developed on his lip. It spread
to his mouth and throat, to the jugular. He died December 7, 1907,
Clara was left with 5 children, the oldest 18, and Frances just 3 years
old. The farm they had purchased to live on was lost because of
Daniel's medical costs. Clara supported her family by raising garden
crops. She, at one time, had 2 acres of onions, which she and the
children took care of. They prepared the ground, set out the onions,
weeded, etc. While Daniel was alive, the onion crops were taken to
Omaha and sold at market. After his death she sold to a buyer who
came from Kansas City and bought the whole crop. She was paid .25
per bushel. The Wilson family drove down the loaded wagons to the
depot at Folsom, where they were unloaded onto railroad cars and
transported to Kansas City.
About 1910, Clara, age 40, married Harvey Bailey. To
this union, one child was born, Eva Lorraine "Clarice", born Mills County,
Iowa. Harvey was a good father to his stepchildren.
Clara's daughter Frances told me about the time her mother
age 95, found a small screw they had been unable to see. Frances had
dropped a small eyeglass screw on the kitchen floor. She and husband
Carn, looked and looked in the area where it fell. Clara asked where
it might be, went to the spot and immediately picked it up!!!
Clara attributed her long life to "just good living,
nothing fancy." She never used lipstick or makeup. She never
had a grey hair until she was 80, said she never let things worry her.
She left her home shortly after Harvey died, and lived with her daughter
Clarice. She died December 11, 1973, at 103 years of age.
Clara Romana Gowens Turner Will is Great Grandmother to
Viola Lawrence. I put this information together with the help of Frances
Godsey, daughter of Clara and Daniel Wilson. Frances is still
living, she was 95 in September.
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